“Would you rather have it with the lights on or off?”ġ4. “Would you rather only have sex in the missionary position or only have sex in the doggy-style position?”ġ3. “Would you rather have sex with someone shorter than you or taller than you?”ġ2. “Would you rather have sex with just one person watching, or would you rather have sex with 50 people watching?”ġ1. “Would you rather watch something erotic with me, or read erotica loud, while touching me?”ġ0. “Would you rather be teased with hot wax or with ice cubes?”ĩ. “Would you rather receive an oral or give one?”Ĩ. “Would you rather not be able to see during sex or not be able to touch during sex?”ħ. “Would you rather do romantic things or try out some new kinky ideas?”Ħ. “Would you rather only be allowed to do foreplay with your hands or only be allowed to do foreplay with your mouth?”ĥ. “Would you rather end the first date with sex or with a passionate kiss?”Ĥ. “Would you rather tease me with hot wax or with ice cubes?”ģ. “Would you rather we play the naughty maid or a sexy Doctor?”Ģ.